Consent is Sexy

Consent is Sexy

Parental consent for a fieldtrip. Informed consent to participate in a study. We throw the word consent around without thinking about it too much, but what about sexual consent? What is it and what do we need to teach our kids about it?
Postcards From the Edge: Virginity

Postcards From the Edge: Virginity

Students are asking me less and less often about virginity because we don’t use the term that often these days. But because it still comes up every now and then in the classroom, let’s discuss.
Sex Talk? No Sweat.

Sex Talk? No Sweat.

Ok parents, school’s back in session which means our kids’ inquiring minds are back in action. Awesome. Before you worry about exactly what to say, here are some tips to help you normalize the topic of sexual health in your home and establish yourself as your kids’ number one source of information for years to come.
Postcards From the Edge: It’s Never Too Early to Talk about Transgender

Postcards From the Edge: It’s Never Too Early to Talk about Transgender

A good friend of mine called me the other day for some guidance on how to talk to her grade 2 son about people who are transgender. Apparently at recess he and a few of his friends were talking about how much it hurts to get kicked in the testicles (she did confirm they were using the scientific names for this body part, at least!) and one of the boys said, “Not for Caitlyn Jenner, she doesn’t have balls anymore.”
Postcards From the Edge – Jan 2015

Postcards From the Edge – Jan 2015

Saleema was in Body Science class with Grade 1s one morning recently talking about how babies are made when an egg and sperm join... Student: What if a woman has two men in her vagina? Saleema: Well, only one man can deliver sperm at one time. Student: But what if...
Guys want sex all the time! Or do they?

Guys want sex all the time! Or do they?

I recently came across a Canadian study that explored the characteristics of victims of sexual coercion. Sexual coercion is a broad category often used by contemporary researchers to refer to the spectrum of people (men, women and transgender folks) whose experiences range from being pressured in some way either implicitly or explicitly to engage in sexual contact to people that have experienced overt violence and sexual assault.